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The following tips for interacting with
people with invisible disabilities are excerpts from a
booklet by Wayne R. Connell, founder and president of The
Invisible DisabilitiesSM
Advocate (IDA). The booklet, called, But You LOOK GoodTM
is a guide to understanding and encouraging people living
with chronic illness and pain.
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What Not to Say/What Discourages People |
What to Say/What Encourages People
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Do
not minimize their situations.
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Acknowledge their situations.
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Do
not disbelieve their illness is real, because you
cannot see their illness.
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Acknowledge their losses.
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not disregard their new limitations.
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Show them you are listening.
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Do
not treat them like they have chosen to have the
disease.
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Show them you are aware of their circumstances.
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Do
not expect them to always be happy — they are ill.
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Show them you are willing to help.
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Do
not assume or put words into their mouths.
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Let
them know you enjoy their company.
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Do
not treat them as if they are not grateful for what
they still have.
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Show them your admiration.
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Do
not act like you can relate to them.
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Let
them know you appreciate their health.
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not act like fixing the problem is simple.
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Give them a compliment.
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